published in Change, Clutter, Home, Inspiration by Maryanne | July 5, 2017

When Opportunity Knocks on the Door – Literally

 

“When opportunity knocks, answer the door.”

 Anon

Let’s start with the rats…

As you may know, we have a bit of a rat problem here on Vancouver Island.

Since moving to Sidney, BC from Calgary, Alberta 7 years ago, I have learned to accept that rats are here to stay, so I best get used to them. And for the most part, I had learned to accept them…at least when it came to them living under my sun room and in my sheds. But when they moved INTO my crawlspace this past winter, I laid down the law and called in the big guns (again) a.k.a. Patrick, The Rat Guy.

Unfortunately, I’ve seen my new pest control friend an awful lot over the past few months. Patrick pops by on a regular basis to…you know, remove the remains ☹ in discreet little black body bags. Sigh…

Patrick has done his darndest to figure out WHERE the rats are getting in. Just when he think he’s sealed off the last possible port of entry, low and behold another rat shows up in one of his traps.

He’s puzzled; I’m frustrated…and the body-count continues to grow.

So in addition to dealing with the problem, I referred to my handy-dandy book about animal spirit guides – given to me by my friend, Jackie. This is what it said under “Rat”:

“If rat shows up, it means…take an inventory of the material goods you have and recycle or throw out what is no longer purposeful.”

– Steven D. Farmer, PH.D., Animal Spirit Guides; An Easy-to-Use Handbook for Identifying and Understanding Your Power Animals and Animal Spirit Helpers

Hmmm…

Then Patrick gave me homework

As you may know, rats themselves aren’t just a problem – so is what they leave behind. Rats can transmit the viral disease, Hantavirus Pulmonary Syndrome. This disease can be spread by inhaling dust that is contaminated with rat urine or droppings as well as direct contact with the feces or urine.

Once Patrick was reasonably confident that he’d dealt with the rat problem, he disinfected the entire crawl space (and the sheds) and cleaned up the droppings as best he could…considering he had to work around multiple stacks of boxes stored in said crawlspace.

My homework was to go THROUGH those boxes and get rid of as much as I could.

So that is exactly what I did. Many of those boxes hadn’t been opened since I moved in 7 years ago. There was no room upstairs to put more stuff, so I saw no reason to open the boxes.

And besides, as perhaps you may have gleaned from my blog a few weeks ago, Anger in the Garden – Pruning Back for New Growth, I suspected a move from my Sidney bungalow was likely in my near-future. Getting rid of as much extra stuff as possible, in preparation for that, was probably not a bad idea. Little did I know what tremendous opportunity was just around the corner 😊

Decluttering is a process…

An item we might “need” to hold on to at one point in our lives, we are more than ready to toss the next time we see the damn thing.

Sure enough, as I worked my way through the boxes, I was able to get rid of some items. As a heart-breaking example, when I came upon the banker’s box from the Calgary Police Service’s Property Room (flagged with an orange biohazard sticker), I knew damn well what was in there ☹

I also knew the time had come to say farewell to those particular items: the uniform shirt John was wearing the night he died (ripped open by the K-9 officer so he could perform CPR) the K-9 officer’s shirt (used to roll up as a pillow and placed under the back of John’s head), a broken piece of ceiling tile (from the false ceiling he fell through because there was no safety railing in place) and his boots (the impetus behind the JPMF’s Put Yourself in Our Boots safety campaign).

But truth be told, other than THAT box of dreadful memories, more often than not I smiled at all the great memories (so far) from a pretty awesome life.

In fact, I’m really glad I hadn’t tossed some of my favourite childhood things when I was moving from my Calgary home 7 years ago. Going through them again now, I had a profound appreciation for all my Mom did for me when I was growing up…all the incredible experiences and opportunities she gave me.

Here are just a few childhood treasures I discovered in some of the boxes in my crawlspace:

My little red downhill ski boots from 1974 (when I was 6).

My Brownies outfit, complete with (this probably won’t surprise you) an awful lot of badges sewn on 😊

My BATON and a few of my costumes I remember my Mom sewing (especially the little daisy sequins on the blue bodysuit).

The hat I wore at summer camp with all sorts of different pins on it (so geeky and yet rather cute).

My blue soccer jacket the year we won the city championships (grade 8).

My favourite record – the soundtrack of the movie, Grease – and matching trading cards (remember John Travolta and Olivia Newton John!)

And then the knock on the door came

And then wouldn’t you know it, a few weeks ago I got the proverbial knock on the door. Sometimes opportunity does, literally, knock at the door!

My neighbour (the annoying one who I’ve blogged far too much about) had finally put his house on the market – and the realtor representing him wanted to see if I was interested in selling my home to a developer, who was interested in purchasing both our properties.

Ummmm…YES!!!

Yup, that’s right…the neighbour who pissed me off so much over the years turned out to be very handy in ensuring I got a heck of a lot more money for my home than if I’d sold on the open market to an individual buyer.

Oh, the irony!

And there you have it. Life is just one big paradoxical mash-up of joy, laughter, sorrow, tears, anger, frustration, memories, experiences, dreams…and sometimes a rat or two (or more) scurrying our way to get things rolling.

“Discovering and understanding what’s important to you leads to life decisions that are easier to make.”

– Kelley Keehn, The Woman’s Guide to Money

Life inevitably brings change – and the older I get, the more I realize the benefits of both preparing for it AND embracing it, when it comes 😊

And get this: I don’t have to move out till the end of October.

Related blogs by Maryanne

Anger in the Garden – Pruning Back for Future Growth

Sometimes Things Have to Go Springer Before They Settle

Trundling Through the Treasure Trove with My Tallest Friend

Say WHAT? Sorting Other People’s Stuff

Fallen Officer’s Items Returned to Widow After Decade in Property Room

Maryanne Pope is the author of A Widow’s Awakening, the playwright of Saviour and the screenwriter of God’s Country. Maryanne is the CEO of Pink Gazelle Productions and Chair of the John Petropoulos Memorial Fund. If you would like to receive her regular weekly blog, please sign up here.

8 Comments

  1. Deborah on July 5th, 2017 at 11:25 am:

    Such a ratty subject while reading and eating my breakfast…lol. I am so excited to see where you are being “lead” next. Kevin and I were talking the other day an looking back on our life together. Whenever we were were to do something, the opportunity came to us, we didn’t have to go chasing it. It has happened many, many times. I think we are finally “getting” it. Keep us all posted. Congratulations.

  2. Elaine Mansfield on July 5th, 2017 at 12:05 pm:

    Wonderful story–except for the rats. I’m on constant mouse control in my old-fashioned stone cellar. Glad you sold when you wanted to. I’m in the sorting stage, but not so many treasures since my mom got read of most of them (a long time ago and without telling me). Congratulations on many fronts, especially seeing the irony of things that irritate and lead to something good.

  3. Theresa on July 5th, 2017 at 3:04 pm:

    What?!! You’re moving? Have so many questions-but in time you’ll give us all the answers. Hope you find that perfect spot that brings you peace. I may just be going through the process as well in the not so distant future. Love so many things about my new place, but there are also some key things missing, so keeping my eyes open for the right opportunity, and will definitely answer that door. All the Best!

  4. Maryanne on July 5th, 2017 at 4:46 pm:

    Oh wow…that is wild that YOU are thinking of moving! I better come out your current digs before you move on!!
    ma

  5. Maryanne on July 5th, 2017 at 4:48 pm:

    Oh no! I am sorry to hear your mom got rid of much of your childhood stuff many years ago (without telling you). Sigh…
    I think sometimes we can get a little over-zealous in our purging 🙁
    Maryanne

  6. Maryanne on July 5th, 2017 at 4:49 pm:

    Yes, me too! I think I am FINALLY getting it…when we show up and do what we need to each day, opportunities do seem to come our way. Just not on OUR time-line necessarily.
    Sorry for the rat-stories during your breakkie!
    ma

  7. jennifer dickey on July 6th, 2017 at 4:31 pm:

    Congrats on the move and good deal from the developer. I still remember the realtor Vic that your mom and I used in Calgary. I am so afraid of rats! Funny, I noticed a dead one on the road near where I lived a few weeks ago and had to keep driving by and looking at it. Then, a number of summers ago when I saw one in the backyard, it ruined my enjoyment of the backyard.
    Do you finally think the rat guy sealed everything? Are they more common in Victoria due to the mild weather, although I think Toronto has a big population, as well.

  8. Maryanne on July 6th, 2017 at 5:41 pm:

    Hi Jennifer! Yes, I remember Vic – the realtor you and my Mom worked with for years. I still have some of his notepads (with his photo and business info on it)!!

    Apparently rats are notorious for living close to water – so that’s a big reason why Victoria has so many. I don’t know if the milder weather also plays a factor or not. I DO think my rat guy has sealed off all entry points, as there have been no more “captures” for awhile now. Paws crossed 🙂

    Take care and enjoy your summer!
    Maryanne

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